" When You Believe in Things That You Don't Understand, You Suffer"    (Stevie Wonder)

TRANSFORMATIONAL MENTORING

Transformation is change. It is the nature of things... It is the nature of life. To fight against this is suffering. To mentally argue and resist the way things are, is insanity. 

If you were perfect and had nothing left to learn... you would not be here.

You may like your house, your car, your HDTV, your spouse, the food you eat, your consoling friend and a hundred other comforts. But comfort is a drug that can be like a deep sleep. It may be nice, but very little is learned if your comfort is a cover-up from a deeper yearning of exploring the depths of yourself. How identified are you with these comforts? Ask yourself how much pain would you experience without them and you will know the answer. There is nothing wrong with comfort if you are aware of it's potential to be an avoidance. But very few people have that kind of awareness and discomfort usually shows up sooner or later anyway, either in your physical body, in your relationships, or in your circumstances. You may eat food that comforts you, but end up with a serious and uncomfortable medical condition from that very food. There is no escape... except to investigate! . All suffering is an opportunity for exploration... for bringing light to... for enlightenment.

This investigation is very exciting! Exploring the depths you... answering the question "Who am I". Discovering "God", if you like that word, and uncovering your truth... not anyone else's truth.

Transformational Mentoring is exploring the jungle of you with a guide... a guide who can not take one step for you. But a guide who can hold the light, point to the different parts of you, give you things to consider, help you reveal your programming so you can be in choice about what serves you and provide tools for you to change what does not, or come to an acceptance and understanding of those parts as your perfection. This guidance sees you and the world as already perfect... understanding this perfection is the return to wholeness... is healing... is health and abundance.

What is possible upon this return? Isn't that an exciting question?! What to do once reaching the end of separation, the end of the interference from our mental concepts, our conditioning and patterns of behavior? Is it possible that in this freedom, you can be be and create as God/Love? What would you be creating? What kind of world? What kind of galaxy? What kind of universe? What kind of chocolate chip cookie?

What if you are creating everything in your world right now and always have been? That may not be easy to swallow if your life circumstances are unpleasant to you. And what if living in "sin" is simply not living the life circumstances of your desires and ideals? The only definition of sin that we have ever come across that makes sense is that sin... is simply "missing the mark". You have within you the blueprint of your ideal... your heaven. Perhaps expressing anything less is living in sin. Not the sin of religion or judgment or of right and wrong, of what society says it is. Is sin defined by anyone, or anything, or any "God" "out there" somewhere? You are the only one who knows your sin... knows you are not living your ideal. Explore this definition for yourself. Are you deciding what words mean... Or do the words have the power?

Exploring leads to understanding and understanding is the end of suffering.

"All conflict, inwardly and outwardly, is between two things... Conceptual thinking and what actually is!"